Tuesday, February 18, 2014

New Blog on WordPress


This blog will be changing. I may still post here - when I want to get on my soapbox, when I want to release my opinions about the world, about God, about injustice, or about anything.

But I have a new writer's blog. It's donnalhsmith.wordpress.com. Join me there for my writer's journey. Follow it, and you can choose from a number of books for free! I'll post more information on that blog.

Blessings.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Emotional Healing - Part IIA - Revelation Can Bring Joy


Yesterday, God showed me something, that even though I already knew it - it brought me great joy. If I had two "life" messages, it would be "the joy of the Lord is your strength" and "root of rejection." Because for many, many years, I suffered from a root of rejection, clinically known as "Rejection Syndrome" or "Avoidance Personality Disorder."

I didn't know any of that. I only knew I seemed different from others. I was shy and easily hurt as a child. Some of my fellow students in school took advantage of that. Through the years, though, even before I knew what to call it - God was working and healing me.

My parents were fabulous. Their unconditional love showed me what real love was like. In college, very few people rejected me, and healing began.

Then, in the 80s, I met my husband. The best man for me with his temperament. His unconditional love again showed me more of God's love and healed more.

Fourteen years ago, I was in a Bible School, and with practically her opening statement, one of our teachers said, "About half of you have a root of rejection and you need to be delivered of it." I figured it was the other half of the class, because I was feeling good at the time.

Over the years, more hurts, rejections and revelations have shown me God's healing ways. Just yesterday, I noticed when I looked at Wikipedia's description of rejection syndrome, I realized two things:

1.   Yep, that's what I had all right. Almost everything they described fit me in the past.

2.    And then it hit me - I'm not like that anymore.

That was a revelation to me. I'm NOT like that anymore! Praise the Lord! I think I'm healed. The only way to know is to be tested in it.

I have a weekend retreat outline that I've done for two of my best friends, because a clinical psychologist (who is also a writer) once told me she thought that would be the best way to bring about a healing change in others. We had a great weekend a few years ago.

I have great joy in knowing that God has brought me from rejection to acceptance. In the beloved.

The key is God's love: the more you accept His love, the more healing you get.

Next up: Back to the Strength of the Lord. What is it?

What do you think? Do you have rejection issues? Do you know someone who has? Leave a comment and let me know. May God Bless you today.

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Emotional Healing Part II - Tapping into the Joy of the Lord


What brings you joy? What makes you happy? For everyone, it is different. For me, a beautiful sunrise or sunset can bring a quiet, peaceful joy. A funny movie, TV show, or reading a funny book can do it for me. Being with friends or family can bring happiness and joy. And doing things I love to do, such as writing, reading, playing piano, singing, or learning something new also bring me joy and happiness. Helping others...the list could go on and on.

Lots of verses come to mind when I think of the joy of the Lord.

In Nehemiah, he states that we should not be sorrowful, because "the joy of the LORD is your strength." I love the song by Twila Paris. "I will not falter, I will not faint. He is my Shepherd, I am not afraid" and much more. Many equate the "Joy of the Lord" as the holy laughter that comes upon people. It can be that, but I think it's so much more.

We need to know how to tap into this "Joy of the Lord" when we do feel sorrowful. The Psalmist said, "weeping endures for the night, but joy comes in the morning." There's something about a new day that can wash away the terrors, pains, and sadness of the night and the previous day. God's mercies are new every morning, thank the Lord.

Isaiah 61 has refers to joy a few times. In this chapter, the prophet Isaiah is prophesying what the Messiah's ministry to mankind will be. He's anointed. He's come to heal and deliver, to comfort and console.

Verse 3 says, "To console those who mourn in Zion. To give them beauty for ashes. The oil of joy for mourning. The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness..."

Verse 7: "Instead of your shame you shall have double honor. And instead of confusion they shall rejoice in their portion. There in their land they shall possess double. Everlasting joy shall be theirs."

When we get to heaven, we'll enter into the joy of our reward. (Matthew 25:21)

Jesus said that if we allow His Spirit to remain in us, and we abide in His love, we'll have His joy. John 15:11 says "These things I have spoken to you that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full." We can have Christ's joy in us.

Next up: What is the strength of the Lord and how can we get it?

What brings you joy? Leave a comment and let me know.

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

We should strive for Excellence in what we do


When God made this rose, even under the present curse of this world, this rose is beautiful isn't it? God doesn't make inferior products - or people. We're always told to do our best. But I believe there is a different way of looking at it.

So why should we do our best or strive for excellence? I have to give credit where credit is due. My first weekend in Bible School, 14 years ago was cold, like it is today, and snowy. Our speaker for Contemporary Theology (which was like chapel) was our esteemed and admired director, Cliff Martin - a last minute substitute because the regular speaker couldn't make it because of the roads.

What I learned from Cliff that day has stayed with me. He spoke of the prophet Daniel, and how Daniel was a man with an excellent spirit.

That's a different take than "doing your best."

Why am I on my soapbox today? As a writer, I'm continually trying to do my best. But I also want my product, a book, or a blog, to be a product of excellence.

I recently purchased a book from a new author from a brand-new publisher. There were many grammatical errors. The story was fabulous. This writer has a great future, I believe, if the writer and the publisher learns the lesson of this blog on excellence.

Daniel 5:12 says that the heathens looked upon Daniel as a man with an excellent spirit, who could understand mysteries and interpret difficult problems. When no one else could figure it out, they sent for Daniel. In this case, it was King Belshazzar, who saw writing in Hebrew on his wall, and he could not understand it. And seeing the disembodied hand who wrote the message scared him, I think.

We all know what was the message was. Mene, mene, tekel, upharsin. Your days are numbered and you're being called into account. King Belshazzar's kingdom was taken from him that night and he died. Eeek! But it took a man of excellence to bring wisdom, revelation, and understanding to this puzzle.

I believe shoddy work of any kind by someone who calls themselves a Christian, is a poor witness, not only to other Christians, but to the world as well. Christianity already has enough detractors. Let's show the world who our God is by becoming more like Him.

I was so distracted by the errors, I felt I had wasted my money. I contacted the new publisher, who replied he was aware of the errors, but sought to get the book on the market quickly, thinking that the errors would be corrected later. Where does that leave me? I already paid full price for this book of errors.

But, I could hardly believe this! Did Christ only partially heal or deliver someone? When did it become so important to get a product out so quickly, that it is an inferior product? I couldn't get away with that in my chocolate business. My customers let me know when something is wrong. I've had to give refunds and re-send shipments.

What was the hurry to get this book out so quickly? I've been waiting years and years to have enough wisdom and training to write a book and get it published so I'm paid to write. Anyone can get a book published. But what kind of book will it be?

I want a book of excellence, written the best I can write it. I'm in revisions of a novel I'm working on. I paid a professional editor a substantial amount to do two substantive edits. I might even hire an additional proofreader if necessary, before I ever send it to a publisher.

I haven't talked to the author yet. She is so very young. But we all need to learn the lessons of patience, perseverance, and excellence. When I see her, I may tell her, as gently as possible, what she might have done to make it better beforehand, and why I feel cheated.

Leave me a comment if you agree or disagree. :-) Let's start talking. Have a blessed day. And...join the discussion, join my blog. :-)

Friday, January 3, 2014

Emotional Healing & Prophetic Words - Part 1




If you're like me, we feel covered and heavy in the midst of winter sometimes. Snow can be heavy and burden down my holly bush. But notice the holly bush is blooming with berries. It's fruitful in the middle of winter.

We feel like that - burdened down with worries, failures, depressions. Sometimes, it's all we can do just to say we still love Jesus, and we'll still follow Him. Because, where else would we go? Who else has the words that will bring us eternal life.

Many of you know I had a big disappointment in ministry seven years ago. God is good, though. He helped begin healing in a number of ways. He gave me dreams that pointed out generational problems, plus showed me my own decisions and how they affected outcomes. He had already shown me about the root of rejection I've carried since before I was born. He's given measures of healing through the last thirteen years. He is faithful to help us.

I recently submitted a prophetic word I received nine years ago to my pastor. He helped me understand a few things about myself. It helped. Somehow, without bells and whistles, healing has been coming to me in the last couple of weeks.

I've had some dramatic emotional healing experiences with God before, where I wept and felt His love strongly on me. But this one was quiet. And a quiet joy has come with it.

And one thing I know...the JOY of the LORD is our strength. That verse and the songs it has inspired, has almost been one of my life theme songs. I've laughed and laughed, and cried and cried. Each joy, when it comes to my emotions, is different. Each brings its own revelation of God's love for me.

Because that's what the healing. God's love and our revelation of it.

Next Up: Tapping into God's Joy for Us, which will bring healing.

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

What a Year! 2013 A Process Year

 (My Holly bush cir. 2011)   
   (Duane & I cir. 1957 or 58)


It's Christmas Eve, and before I start clearing up and cleaning up for tomorrow (we're having a few friends over for a late supper), I thought I'd reflect on this year.

It's not been an easy year, but I can say, it has been a good year.

It started with Kirby's Dad. We spent as much time with him as we could for his last couple of months. He went home to be with the Lord on 3-3-13. We miss you, Dad. He was 91 and much fun to be around.

My first memory of him was not altogether pleasant, until he realized his bark was all bark, no bite. Kirby and I were dating, and he took me home to meet his folks. Dad hardly looked up at me. He was in the middle of doing something, and he made an off-hand remark - something you would say when you knew someone better, not when you first met them. But I soon realized what was up and shook my head, laughing inside.

 
 

Then, we went to Cape May for the first time in probably 10 years. We also stayed at a place we'd never stayed before - The Mooring. It was formerly the first boardinghouse built in Cape May. We actually stayed in a converted parlor, Room 1. It was beautiful. You can see our bay window from the front left. There were doors that led directly to the front porch.


We went to Baltimore in late September for the Natural Products Expo East, and had a great few days there.

One week later, I headed off to Colorado for the best and worst few days of my life, it seemed. The two days, Friday and Saturday that I was actually in Colorado, were two of the best days I've had. My fellow Christian Writer's Guild Craftsman XI classmates were terrific to get to know. Here's our class picture. Unfortunately, one of our classmates had to leave early because his brother died, and he is not in our photo below.



I did draft a novel this year, and I'm in the process of revisions. I'm realizing that I've been privy to two kinds of processes in the last seven years.

First, God showed me that the tempering process chocolate goes through is a lot like the refiner's fire we as Christians go through. You can see earlier posts regarding that.

Secondly, the novel writing process I alluded to in the last post, is more of an endurance and humbling process. Anyone can write something and get it published if they want to pay for it. I know people who have done that and that's fine for them.

I feel I should, at least try, the traditional publishing process first - which is: 1) write it and edit it; 2)  have it professionally edited (which is the process I'm in now); 3) complete those revisions; 4) submit it to publishers in that genre.

I'm hoping to have it ready for publication by summertime.

Which now leads me to the holiday season. For Thanksgiving, we served at our community dinner. For Christmas, we're doing something new, which borrows from last year. I made a pot of turkey burger chili last year for Christmas, since we were too late to eat with Kirby's dad at Ephrata Manor.

This year, I'm making another pot of chili, and some friends are coming over later in the day.

I want to wish everyone a very, Merry Christmas and a very blessed and Happy New Year! Soon, I'll talk about the "big trip" in 2014 that Kirby and I are taking in March.
 

 

Monday, December 2, 2013

The Writing Process - a novel idea

It's a long one. One that I am learning to patient with. The idea came to me about a year and a half ago. I asked the Lord for a novel idea.

An obscure history lesson came to mind. The Gunfight at Hyde Park in Newton, Kansas.

 


My hometown was wild and wooly. Historical fiction / romance sells. I'm gonna try it.

I've finished my first draft and I'm in revisions before I submit to publishers. My former writing mentor from Christian Writer's Guild, Sandra Byrd, is helping me with it. I appreciate her, and my other mentors from CWG. Currently, I'm taking the Craftsman class - XI with DiAnn Mills as my mentor.

What are you passionate about today? For me - it's God, family/friends, chocolate, and writing. :-)